Can I say something to you that I really wish that someone would say to me sometimes? You are not behind. I know it can feel that way. I know you look around sometimes — at people your age who seem further along, more settled, more put together — and you feel this quiet, nagging sense that you've somehow missed a step. That your life should look different by now. That you should have figured out more, accomplished more and healed more.
Friendships – Why They Are Harder As Adults
Finding friends looks different at different stages of life. There are dramatic shifts at a few different points in our lives. I'm talking about genuine friends, not just a social circle or people who are really more acquaintances than people you know you can rely on. This is a struggle for me too. Why is …
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Waterfall – Or Well
Let’s talk about this. Do you want to be a waterfall or a well? Don’t worry I’m going to explain it more! I know eventually all metaphors unravel but stick with me on this one as long as you can. This relates to who you are to other people and when you are around other …
Trend or Not – Red Light Therapy
Red light therapy. Right now it feels like a trend that's really taking off. I've known about it for quite a while, but now it seems like I'm seeing it everywhere. Including those scary masks you might have noticed also. Different kinds of light therapy have been around for years and years. Not just red. …
Legacy – What Will Yours Be (Repost)
1906 That is the year my family farm officially began. Hard to believe it's been that long. While I definitely wasn't around for the early years, I have been around for enough of the later years to appreciate the legacy of what my family has built. I so greatly appreciate all the work, hardship and …
Time – Longer Than It Should?
Do you know someone who you just speak with for a short time and you feel like you know them really well? Or maybe you are someone who easily shares a lot of things about yourself with people you have just met. Honestly some people are just like an open book and it doesn't take …
Covering – Admit It We Do It
It's ok you can admit it. Admit that at least at some point in your life you have worn a mask. No, not a physical mask like for a costume. But a mask to cover who you are. Masks can look different for different people. A mask for one person might be one that attracts …
Encouragement – It’s Oh So Good
Encouragement. We all know what it is and we have likely been the recipient of it at some point or another in our lives. Well I would hope so at least. I would also hope that at some point in your life you have been the giver of encouragement. Encouragement can come in all shapes …
Choice – It’s Up To You
I thought I might as well get it over with right from the start. Instead of keeping you waiting in anticipation to see if I was going to mention making personal choices again, I decided to just come right out and put it in the title. Don’t you just feel better about it all now? …
Oh No – What Have I Done
Seattle Christmas Market beside the Space Needle Oh no! Those were the words that ran through my mind numerous times just a few weeks ago. Very recently I got back from a trip I had been planning for almost 6 months. It was a unique trip. One I won't have the chance to go on …

