Can I say something to you that I really wish that someone would say to me sometimes? You are not behind. I know it can feel that way. I know you look around sometimes โ at people your age who seem further along, more settled, more put together โ and you feel this quiet, nagging sense that you've somehow missed a step. That your life should look different by now. That you should have figured out more, accomplished more and healed more.
It Matters – What Iโm Learning Now
Yes it matters, it really matters. Iโm just now learning some really important information I wish I had learned at the time. Letโs go back to the moment 23 years ago, which I remember vividly still to this day. I had just graduated from college, moved to a new city, started a new job and …
Friendships – Why They Are Harder As Adults
Finding friends looks different at different stages of life. There are dramatic shifts at a few different points in our lives. I'm talking about genuine friends, not just a social circle or people who are really more acquaintances than people you know you can rely on. This is a struggle for me too. Why is …
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Waterfall – Or Well
Letโs talk about this. Do you want to be a waterfall or a well? Donโt worry Iโm going to explain it more! I know eventually all metaphors unravel but stick with me on this one as long as you can. This relates to who you are to other people and when you are around other …
Health – It’s So Much More Than Food
Health can be a catch all kind of term. Which isn't necessarily wrong. But when we think about our own health and what impacts our own health, we can be more narrow minded or restrict how we see it. When you think about health, you probably consider the usual things or ways it comes up …
Spring – A Time for Renewal and a Restart (Repost)
It happens every year. Yes it's true, every year! Spring, happens. Not necessarily earth-shattering news. Well I hope not anyway. While there are some times when it feels like spring will never arrive, (like this year), I can guarantee that it will definitely arrive, eventually. How and when is usually a mystery. Especially up here …
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Legacy – What Will Yours Be (Repost)
1906 That is the year my family farm officially began. Hard to believe it's been that long. While I definitely wasn't around for the early years, I have been around for enough of the later years to appreciate the legacy of what my family has built. I so greatly appreciate all the work, hardship and …
Reading – Do It For Your Health
What do a stack of books, Queen Elizabeth and a 7 year old girl have in common?
100 – I Can’t Believe It
100, well actually 101, but you won't tell, will you. I've written over 100 blog posts so far. Hard to believe it. Well I know I don't believe it. I remember considering writing this blog for over 3 years before I even officially launched it in 2021. And now I've been writing it for almost …
Covering – Admit It We Do It
It's ok you can admit it. Admit that at least at some point in your life you have worn a mask. No, not a physical mask like for a costume. But a mask to cover who you are. Masks can look different for different people. A mask for one person might be one that attracts …

